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Thursday, 19 November 2009
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Intellectual Intercourse = all the sex I need for now, until I try the real deal
I'm serious when I say I am still a virgin; I have yet to engage in sexual intercourse, coitus, horizontal tango et al.
How far have I gone? None of your damn business!
How far will I go? In time, all the way!
But for the meantime I get my kicks over intelligent conversation, for I consider intelligence to be sexy. There aren't any stages to intellectual intercourse as their is for sex, but there are some ways to know whether you're doing it or not:
- are you engaged?
- is it a subject you enjoy or are familiar with?
- even if you are not familiar, are you engaged to what the other person has to say?
- are you smiling? is he/she smiling?
- are there "good vibes" between the two of you?
You may have had intellectual intercourse!I enjoy intellectual intercourse, talking about things I am aware of and have an interest in, whether it's books I have read or reading, theology, word origins, practical jokes, I find myself happier around those who can discuss things, and I do find it quite stimulating (mentally) to find girls who share similar passions with me.
I have a friend who is a girl who I can talk to about cars and other things that might get written off as "guy stuff" quite easily, I wish I knew more girls like this, because I enjoy talking about stuff like that.
Don't get me wrong, I don't talk from an alpha male, machismo, testosterone laden point of view, I enjoy the arts and things that might get passed off as "girl stuff" - I do have feminine intuition and I was raised in an environment where I was the only guy, so I am polished around some of my edges, but edges they remain still.
I am looking for her, the girl I intend to date (I'm not fond of casually dating) and time will reveal if there is a future for us in the long run. I will take my time, engage in conversations with the opposite sex and aim to do things right this time around, to which my past in this area is none of your damn business.
~~DV~~
Friday, 29 May 2009
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How many -gasm's can you think of?
Well of course there's orgasm...what else?
Sunday, 22 March 2009
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Feedback Please!
Hi,
believe it or not, I'm making a comeback, I'll be bigger than SuggestiveTongue in no time! Heh...maybe ;)
So, I'm still a virgin
and yes, I have thought about sex, A LOT, since last I blogged...hmm, this is where you chime in, what should I blog about pertaining to sexuality and etc?D*V
Sunday, 11 January 2009
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Christians should talk about sex more, why not...I don't but wish I knew why
SEX,
One of the many gifts God has given mankind.
I have never had sex before,
had my chances, but still I am waiting till I get married.
Won't that seem awkward? Will you know what to do? What if your wife's not a virgin?
Yes, I've heard it all, but still I am convinced this is best for me.
Is it in the Bible? Is that why you're waiting?
I think people assume that it is in the Bible -- Thou shalt not have sex before marriage
Yet it's not in the Bible!
The construct of marriage is not a new one, but it's not how it was in the Bible.
A man would leave his parents and take a woman to be his wife and they'd start a family of their own.
There wasn't the dating time, engagement time and then time-for-the-wedding time.
It is for me from a personal standpoint that I am saving sex for marriage,
it's not religious views,
it's not because I am a Christian,
it is for me and my future wife, my virginity will be taken (oh, I shan't put up a fight
) by her.Christians kind of have it in their mind that sex is dirty. Yes, sex has been perverted by advertisements, pornography, etc. But its truest essence sex is not dirty, and so when sex is done right...why do they shudder and blush? Not all Christians mind you, but there are some that kind of have a well we don't talk about THAT in proper company attitude about sex...it puzzles and saddens me.
Here's one that might stir some thoughts: Is any form of sex BAD between a husband and a wife?
No, I believe all forms of sex/positions/props/etc is permissible, as long as both husband and wife are fine with it. Personally in my married years I am willing to try anything sexual, as long as my wife's sexual bed is mine and mine her's, no 3somes or swinging couples, I want my sex to be for her and her alone.
:::to be continued:::
D!V!
Monday, 05 January 2009
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I am still here
but I am thinking slower as to what I want to share here about sex/sexuality/related.
I have been very a devious virgin as of late, I pose the questions some Christians don't want to talk about -- is sexuality really that uncomfortable to talk about? God made it....so, why not talk about it? We talk about the other things He has made, but sex...really?
I found out that an aquaintance of mine decided to sing Song of Solomon to which I chided Yeah, I bet he made "may her breasts satisfy you always" sound really catchy. To which I got glared at...WHAT???
P.S. Keep Lorelei and her relatives and family in your prayers, recently her cousin Peter passed away.
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