SEX,
One of the many gifts God has given mankind.

I have never had sex before,
had my chances, but still I am waiting till I get married.

Won't that seem awkward? Will you know what to do? What if your wife's not a virgin?
Yes, I've heard it all, but still I am convinced this is best for me.
Is it in the Bible? Is that why you're waiting?
I think people assume that it is in the Bible -- Thou shalt not have sex before marriage
Yet it's not in the Bible!
The construct of marriage is not a new one, but it's not how it was in the Bible.

A man would leave his parents and take a woman to be his wife and they'd start a family of their own.

There wasn't the dating time, engagement time and then time-for-the-wedding time.

It is for me from a personal standpoint that I am saving sex for marriage,
it's not religious views,
it's not because I am a Christian,
it is for me and my future wife, my virginity will be taken (oh, I shan't put up a fight ) by her.

Christians kind of have it in their mind that sex is dirty. Yes, sex has been perverted by advertisements, pornography, etc. But its truest essence sex is not dirty, and so when sex is done right...why do they shudder and blush? Not all Christians mind you, but there are some that kind of have a well we don't talk about THAT in proper company attitude about sex...it puzzles and saddens me.

Here's one that might stir some thoughts: Is any form of sex BAD between a husband and a wife?
No, I believe all forms of sex/positions/props/etc is permissible, as long as both husband and wife are fine with it. Personally in my married years I am willing to try anything sexual, as long as my wife's sexual bed is mine and mine her's, no 3somes or swinging couples, I want my sex to be for her and her alone.

:::to be continued:::

D!V!